We surely don't know what's in others life, if we don't open our eyes toward others. Well, we can't say for sure that we understand them either. There's a guy that his life is very simple. Go to school, study, laugh with his friends, sometimes meet new friends then go back home. Have lunch and list goes on and on.. But one thing we never knew that we didn't realize that we threw a stone. We'd never knew that our action or our words or maybe our thinking may affect other's life. Maybe for us, it's something that very simple and it doesn't really matter to us but who knows that it may change his/her life. OK back to that simple guy's story. One day, that guy (okeh let's name him si A) saw his friend is being bullied (let's call his friend as si B). Then he as a very simple guy and still green in knowledge of social behavior, simply protected si B. Although he one who bullied si B has very high status in the society but si A didn't care about it. Then the bad guy's father went to see si A's guardians saying that si B did something wrong to his son. Although we know who is right and who is wrong but sometimes, that's the reality now. Status really have it their way. Si B asked si A to say nothing when they're confronted. But at last, si A can't keep quite about it and said that he is the one who did 'bad thing' to the mr. high status's son. Si A was punished but very severe because they actually know who is right and who is wrong but it was just unwritten law that never go against someone who has higher status than yours. To si A, it's simply something that he has to take for himself because of his act and it has nothing to do with others or si B. But for si B, it's an event.. a very important event in his life. When you throw a stone int a pond, you will see the surface of the water will change, not as calm as before. That's something that we can see, but in humans heart? We can't see it. Then, when si B scolded si A because standing up for him (si A), si A's guardian said that "see, you just throw another stone".. because si B has never care about his friends before but the scolding is a proof of
you care about other people, right?

You never know how big the riddle will be, nor you know the shape of the riddle in someone's heart. Knowing that, do you feel that you want to throw lots if stone everyday? Well, I dont know yours, but what i know for sure is who i am today is the result of thousands, millions if stne threw by others.

Wisest is someone who knows that he/she doesn't know

I can't agree more than this.
OK, lets stop for now, altho this is rather long entry.. hihi see ya
wassalam